After two days at my foster mom\u2019s I realize that I\u2019m a real life hack. Her granddaughter is my age and lives up the street, she never invites her for lunch. Only when I\u2019m there. My foster mom always cared for me but she\u2019s still surprised that I come regularly, after all those years. After all, officially I don\u2019t have anything to do with her. Her sister who lives across the street fostered a black kid too, she never saw nor heard of him again once he left.<\/p>\n
So hacking. I broke into<\/em> this family with my nice baby face and now I\u2019m as part of it as if I had the same blood, without the problems like resentment or jealousy. Same with my (other) family! Anyway, it gives me a sense of why I never want to just <\/em>do and follow like everybody else and almost need<\/em> to hack, make it my way, questioning everything, trying to build healthy bases in everything I do etc.<\/p>\n It\u2019s exhausting talking to two moms that having nothing in common either with me or between them in the same day. It really brings me a different perspective though.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" After two days at my foster mom\u2019s I realize that I\u2019m a real life hack. Her granddaughter is my age and lives up the street, she never invites her for lunch. Only when I\u2019m there. My foster mom always cared for me but she\u2019s still surprised that I come regularly, after all those years. After […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1624"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1624"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1624"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1624"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}