{"id":1968,"date":"2015-02-27T19:12:44","date_gmt":"2015-02-27T19:12:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/?p=1968"},"modified":"2015-02-27T19:12:44","modified_gmt":"2015-02-27T19:12:44","slug":"body-as-service","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/2015\/02\/body-as-service\/","title":{"rendered":"Body as service"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Also, I don\u2019t keep men in my life who pay for sex. Sorry guys. Life is full of double standards. I\u2019ve got no problem with my girls selling it, but you\u2019ve lost my respect if you\u2019re buying.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Coquette<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Exactly. Which is why I stopped giving a flying fuck about sex workers defending sex work it\u2019s like listening to oil companies telling you that yes, you need a car that consumes fossil fuel because this is how it goes<\/em>. I\u2019m OK with you selling it because in the case of oil there\u2019s still tons of cars running on it or in the case of sex, I understand that it\u2019s a way to independence for people but don\u2019t ever try to sell me that it\u2019s the norm, the future because it\u2019s fucking not. <\/p>\n

I agree with Coquette. She\u2019s right. And that\u2019s the problem because that double standard right here is for me why we can\u2019t have nice things between men and women. I have nothing against double standard per se<\/em>, but as a black man I\u2019m constantly and forever on the bad side of it. This shit sucks hard. Why we shouldn\u2019t have double standard? Because I\u2019d like to think that we\u2019re not at war, that we\u2019re equal, the same damn meat bags and that we live together and respectively need those tits lips balls and dicks?<\/p>\n

How can we have more equality and respect  when a dude can buy a woman for the night, that just really<\/em> doesn\u2019t make any sense. Imagine a kid trying to make sense out of that. How society can shift its perspective on women if in any city you can get a sloppy blowjob for a a couple bills? Everything from slut shaming to cat calling to internet stalking derives from that, men believing that if some women can be bought \u2013it doesn\u2019t matter for what- they can do whatever they want to them because they feel like they are entitled to. Ladies, don\u2019t you get it? <\/p>\n

Even for the brightest men (well, maybe not so bright) that shit is confusing. Respect women, but buy one and do whatever you want wit her? It sounds like the perfect recipe to create psychopaths heavy breathing behind you in the street.<\/p>\n

Fuck double standards and if you are a woman with some long term views, you shouldn\u2019t support prostitution. Period.<\/p>\n

You fight patriarchy while feeding it with slave-like behavior, how is that supposed to even work? It\u2019s not and it can\u2019t. I see things like \u201cwhen you allow prostitution, rape rates go down!\u201d<\/em> God so much sleaziness in this argument, I can\u2019t believe it\u2019s being used. Dude, it\u2019s like trading death for permanent injuries maybe it\u2019s an upgrade but come on, we can do way better. <\/p>\n

Dear men seeking that kind of service, what the fuck is wrong with you? I don\u2019t get it except that it\u2019s kind of a way to justify the ridiculous hours of work and absence in your life that you\u2019re dealing with. A \u201cfuck it\u201d<\/em> to the cubical or constantly-on-the-road loneliness. An immature wish that you can now fulfill, OK\u2019d by society as long as you\u2019re not getting caught.<\/p>\n

Stop. This. Shit. Get an Autoblow<\/a> or something<\/a>. Go see a therapist or start writing a blog if you pay a hooker to hear your stupid lamentations. Dress better. Hit the fucking gym. Learn to listen. Be smart, fuck for free you idiots.<\/p>\n

Dude re-calculate your existence, seriously. Not only you fuck up our global relationship with women in general but you\u2019re making yourself swallow so much pride you\u2019re pretty much choking on it until you\u2019re old enough to not give a fuck about anything. That misogynistic selfishness is sometimes disrupted because you happen to have a little girl. Jesus fuck, if you need to have a kid to understand what women go through you are slow up there, like really slow. And you are the problem.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be equal, fuck for free and build shit\/have fun together. How hard is that, really?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Also, I don\u2019t keep men in my life who pay for sex. Sorry guys. Life is full of double standards. I\u2019ve got no problem with my girls selling it, but you\u2019ve lost my respect if you\u2019re buying. Coquette. Exactly. Which is why I stopped giving a flying fuck about sex workers defending sex work it\u2019s […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1968"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1968"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1968\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1969,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1968\/revisions\/1969"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1968"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1968"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/har0ld.com\/playground\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1968"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}