My journey as a black man through the world, starting in a small village in France, kept me busy. I worked on myself slowly and relentlessly and now I look at men like, what the fuck have y\u2019all done besides nothing.<\/p>\n
Yesterday I had 2 friends swinging by. The woman showed up, texted, brought drinks. The man just ghosted me after sending me a screenshot on Friday that he\u2019d put me in his calendar. It\u2019s totally expected and that\u2019s what\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n
My friend in Paris is being harassed by her ex and a dude in her building. It\u2019s totally expected.<\/p>\n
The complete lack of support between dudes. Expected.<\/p>\n
The news, obviously. From Offset to Riot. I read Hacker News, full of smart but quite if not full-on sociopathic dudes. Some comments are plain terrifying.<\/p>\n
The rate of decent men is too damn low. It\u2019s so disappointing. I don\u2019t understand this race that keeps men going nuts: the race to a number. We don\u2019t need this shit right now. For the next decades we need to chill and make sure to sustain stuff. Not burn down through natural resources or relationships. Sustain. Control. Subtlety. All that. <\/p>\n
I often see women wondering \u201cwhy can\u2019t decent men talk to those idiots\u201d. We did but also, we know that they know. They know what to do. It\u2019s just different from what they think they should do, so they don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve never been afraid of acting different to make a difference. Ok, sometimes I did but I nut up and went through it. Like human beings have been doing for thousands of years. Do better my dude. Come on, mane.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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