For those not on twitter 24/7 a girl at Slane Festival didn’t just enjoy Eminem but gave at least two men blow jobs, and was photographed doing it. As is the way with such things the photographs have gone viral.
So this happened and I totally support this opinion about it. I still don’t understand men’s incapacity to see how in the long term having women enjoying an open sexuality is benefiting us you morons, but anyway.
Let’s talk about oral sex.
The author notes how a woman gives a head, how it’s an active thing to do. What I find fascinating with oral sex is more the duality of being in control as much as being vulnerable, both ways: you are “down there” but you have the most fragile and sensitive external organ of the human body between your teeth. You are “above” your partner but you are “on your knees” in your mind. Oral sex is an exercise on trust and a beautiful dance between power and powerlessness. I think it’s great and so simply pure but anyway I’m totally subjective.
It’s really sad how we don’t make sense for teenagers, being all positive about them being who they are, experiencing things and then we just condemn them when they are doing just that , when they are women. I wish we were showing more consistency.